Popular Nigerian fashion designer Veekee James has sent shockwaves through social media with a fiery piece of marital advice delivered during her sister-in-law’s bridal shower. Drawing from her own experience as a newlywed, the outspoken designer urged married women to prioritize their husbands’ sexual needs — no matter how tired they may feel.
In a video that has gone viral, Veekee passionately advised women to never deny their husbands intimacy. “Even when you’re exhausted, just lie down and open your legs,” she declared, adding that women don’t always need to participate actively — just being available was enough. According to her, marriage requires selflessness, especially in the bedroom.
But Veekee didn’t stop there. She warned women to avoid comparing their husbands to other men. “Your husband should be the best man in your eyes,” she said, emphasizing the importance of contentment in maintaining a peaceful and happy home. The remarks, while applauded by some, have also drawn heavy criticism for being one-sided and tone-deaf.
Social media platforms exploded with mixed reactions. Some praised Veekee’s honesty and said her advice was refreshingly real, especially coming from someone still navigating newlywed life. Others slammed the statement as promoting female submission without regard for emotional or physical well-being. As the debate continues, one thing is clear: Veekee James has once again found herself at the center of a cultural conversation.
