Temi Otedola, daughter of Nigerian billionaire Femi Otedola and wife of singer Mr Eazi, has stirred public conversation after officially changing her surname to Ajibade following their wedding. The move, while common in many marital traditions, drew criticism from a Nigerian woman in a viral video who questioned the decision, arguing that Temi’s maiden name carried significant influence and recognition.
In the video, the woman expressed disbelief, saying, “How can you change a surname as powerful as Otedola to Ajibade because of marriage… the same surname wey make Mr Eazi run come marry you.” She suggested that Temi’s identity and family legacy were part of what made her appealing and that changing her name diminished that value. She also cited examples of other public figures, such as Korra Obidi, who retained their maiden names after marriage.
The video sparked a wave of reactions online. While some users dismissed the critique as bitter or classist, others saw it as a reflection of deeper societal expectations placed on women. Comments ranged from humorous takes to more serious reflections on how marriage and identity intersect in Nigerian culture. One user noted, “Rich woman change her name, na poor woman dey vex,” while another added, “Train your kids well please.”
Temi has not publicly responded to the criticism, but her decision to adopt her husband’s surname appears to be a personal choice rooted in her own values. The debate, however, highlights ongoing tensions around tradition, autonomy, and the evolving roles of women in public life.
